During the night of a new moon (when there is no moon visible in the sky) go outside and lay on your back someplace peaceful. Get comfortable. Draw three deep, centering breaths. Think about the perfect guy or girl for you. Don’t give that person a face or name! Not even if you’re in love at the moment. Clear your mind of all current loves. Focus hard on what it is you truly want in another person. Then find five stars, one for each of the elements, clumped in any way together, or nearby each other. As you look at each star individually, whisper aloud a distinct attribute you wish your love to have. Example: “I wish he would have a wonderful sense of humor.” Or “I wish he would always respect me.” Wish for five different attributes, one on each star. When you have finished wishing, keep gazing at your five stars as you take three deep cleansing breaths again, and when you leave the night, and the new moon – which symbolizes new beginnings, take with you the possibility of your deepest desires being fulfilled in the future.